That is not the mentality we should take a hold of as Christians. The law of LOVE was written on our hearts when we gave our lives to the Lord. The most important thing to the Lord after saving you and I is saving other SOULS.
It takes humility to think of others rather than just ourselves. We were born in sin because of Adam's sin but the greater Adam has saved us from all sin. His love and spirit transforms us to be new creations. That's right, we are re-created by the transforming power of God's Holy Spirit, becoming truly born again. When we experience this change of mind and heart we are transformed into soldiers for Christ. Many times the enemy comes along with his deadly weapon, the spirit of OFFENSE.
We should not be surprised by this but many times we get caught up in the web of offenses becoming trapped. The only way to get untangled out of the web of offense is LOVE. It may become necessary to be the first to say we're sorry for something we didn't do just to make peace or confront someone who has offended you. In all cases, humility is required. So we must ask God for his help everyday to fill us with his Holy Spirit and walk in it willingly. . Praise God